Fry's Electronics carries antistatic stuff. http://www.frys.com/
As for an antistatic soldering station, try a Hakko. Fry's sells Hakko soldering stations. I had one for a while, but my poor hand eye coordination ultimately led me to the conclusion that I can't solder worth beans.
Heck, I can't even touch type, all I can do is type with my index fingers like an 8 year old. It's not a matter of knowing how, I do, I just don't have the motor coordination. Anyway, Fry's has mats and even antistatic gloves. Gloves are great for keeping skin oils off sensitive components.