I hear all of the stories about hams who have to sneak stuff in and I think... Why would you want to be married to someone like that?
Or married to a woman you refer to as "the wife". Sounds like an object of disdain, not a true friend you wouldn't want to live without.
Strange isn't it? Grown a$$ men sneaking around to do something they enjoy, talking about radios they love
but supposed life partners with whom they can't be honest.