"If you don't want to go, just say so. Whining and complaining means you just want attention, not a solution."
I wonder how many folks who get-up every morning at 6:00am for work Mon-Fri would attend a hamfest on a Saturday morning at 2:00am, especially if they had a three hour drive?
If you're going hiking or doing something where a radio may be damaged, why not look at one of them cheap Chinese HT's that are all over the internet for $50.00, that way you're not out much if it breaks or takes a dive. Also, read their reviews here on eHam too.
I didn't solder mine...I simply crimped them. I have sixteen 32' radials buried below my Hustler 6-BTV and it works quite well here in Northern New York.
I use the same thing on VHF/UHF that I do on HF SSB... A Heil Gold Line mic going into a W2IHY 8-band EQ. It sounds excellent on 2-meters and I get many compliments.
I run an Ameritron AL-80B at about 800 watts into a LDG AT-1000Pro Autotuner all day long with no issues whatsoever. My antenna is a ground-mounted Hustler 6BTV.
I also run an Ameritron AL-811 into a LDG AT-600Pro at about 500 watts with no issues either.