The fact that a ham would ask this questions tells me that hams, as a species, have no clue about the human female.  When the human female sees an overweight, middle aged man with a call sign on his baseball cap and 4 antennas sprouting out of his car, the idea of studying hard to join his club does not occur to her.  There is nothing about amateur radio or the social misfits that typically populate this hobby that is even remotely appealing to women.