I agree with N8UZE. Even though I'm not repeating his words, I urge you to re-read his post and take it very seriously.
In addition:
You said something about getting help in the Lansing, Michigan area.
Excellent idea! Practicing by yourself as N8UZE recommended will work, and is a very good way to get yourself where you want to be - but if you have a practice buddy, it is easier. Doing both - by yourself practice and with a friend - is probably the best.
Go to
http://www.arrl.org/FandES/field/club/clubsearch.phtmland search Michigan. Then text searching the page, I found "Lansing" three times. Two of those clubs specifically mentioned "help for newcomers".
Try to find a club and some hams, in your area, willing to help you.
Btw, to upgrade to General, besides the code that we have been discussing, you'll need to take a written test. Don't forget to study for it too.

You said you were an old tech. We are assuming that you are a 'No Code' Tech. Just for the record, is that correct?
If you had a Tech license from way back - circa 1987 or so - then you might need some different advice.
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