Dan-
I am very familiar with the standard Larsen 3/4" NMO, the Larsen 3/8" Thick Panel NMO, and the Antenex MABTO 3/8" Thick Panel mounts as I have had a special stake pocket antenna mount project going.
http://www.fastq.com/~louvu/antmount.htmFollow the "Instructions" link on the above page to see the Antenex MABTO base in detail.
The Larsen standard 3/4" and the Antenex MABTO both use the "foot" style anchor on the underside of the panel. The size of the foot is the same with both mounts so you bring up a valid point that with the 3/8" hole more of the foot is on the panel under surface compared to the 3/4" hole, which only leaves about 3/16" overhang on either side. Mind you, the MABTO mounts from below, and the outer ring screws down over the top.
The Larsen 3/8" thick panel NMO base is more along the lines of what Alan is talking about. This mount pokes through from above, exposing the threaded portion below. They supply you with a brass nut to secure the base. Not too bad, but the coax connection leaves something to be desired. The center NMO contact is acually shaped like a silvered brad which you drive into the center conductor. Another plastic sleeve slides over the center insulator and compresses the braid against the side of the center hole of the mount. A picture would be worth a thousand words here. Another complaint is that it is not really designed for RG8-X which is so popular in mobile setups.
Larsen only makes the 3/8" thick bases as a kit with 17' of coax. The Antenex MABTO is a solder connection, which will accept RG58 and RG8-X. The mount is well made and has a silver-tinned ground lug. Antenex and Larsen make a ton of different mounts as you are aware. I am partial to Antenex and they have distributors- just call their main facility for one near you.
BTW, I have used the standard Larsen 3/4" NMO base in a thick panel, and had to over size the hole to 0.8125" to get the base in from below. It has held up fine with a VHF/UHF dual band antenna on my truck.
73 Mark