I think I'm going to try and make my own lip type mount
Excellent. Start somewhere and see how it works out.
As for the ground, do you think if I ran a wire from the bottom of the metal bracket that I fabricate and attach it to the metal tailgate, or possibly two wires from the bracket to two separate spots on the tailgate, do yu think that would work as a good ground?
I'll use my own post to answer that:
Just "grounding" an antenna to the car body does not automatically satisfy the requirement of a ground plane
You can try it. The worst that can happen is it won't work well. But it may work well enough for what you're trying to do.
Mark K5LXP
Albuquerque, NM