That's strange. My 5J0R contact of 11/10/2013 has been confirmed in LoTW, and I have the paper QSL card.
I was going to say the same thing. My 5J0R contacts were confirmed in LoTW on 12/19/13. You may want to check your log for anything off.
did u two donate to 5J0R or pay for a paper card?
From Nov 1 thru Nov 11, 2013 I worked them on 10 thru 40 meters CW & SSB (just CW on 30m) but have not seen any LoTW so far.
I checked and my QSO's with them are uploaded to LoTW...