Is your radio stuck on a net? Seriously, why bother dealing with closed minds when we have so many bands and other opportunities... DXing, ragchewing, working CW, public service, etc. ? If the guy on this net bothers you, just move on to something better and more enjoyable. Let misery enjoy its own company.
I like chasing DX CW contacts. That rocks my boat. I am an old fart. I also wouldn't want to listen to another old AH telling me what I need in my shack. Life is too short. HR is a good hobby. I also enjoy restoring vintage radios, and I enjoy designing and building equipment, or modifying gear that I own. I am never bored. Right now I am trying to repair a TecTec Omni VI Plus that has several problems. If I am successful, it will become my main HF radio. If you are not having fun, and enjoying the hobby, I suggest it is time to rediscover some aspect that is fun, challenging, or at least gives you some positive vibes.
Pete