Just like anything else in this world, there are grumpy, sad people and there are happy, enthused people.
Because I'm on the autism spectrum, I notice that in the past I tended to take nearly everything personally, and let sad, grumpy people bother me. But in recent times, I think I've learned how to tune those people out and not let them bother me so much. Since I'm a Christian, I try to pray for grumpy, negative, mean people like that. More than likely they have some hurt stuck in their heart that's spilling over into their lives (including on-air behavior).
Matt, look into packet radio, or try building a home-made directional antenna for two-meters and see how many people you can reach on simplex (146.520, for example). If you have a Tech license, try the ham exam tests on QRZ (
http://www.qrz.com/hamtest/ ) and use the web to brush up on areas you need work in.
Not everyone acts mean and nasty. Check your private message and if you need to vent, e-mail me. I'm just one of many people who enjoy the hobby and don't act mean or nasty.
God bless and 73!
Will
AF7EC