I personally enjoy the fellowship offered by these forums and I learn something new everyday. Too many times, an angry response will start a thread war. I see it happen time after time when the 'Report to moderator' button should have been used in the first place. Don't try to fix it yourself, let the moderator handle it.
Escalating a volatile discussion does nothing for promotion of the hobby or the forums in general. I have learned to 'zip my lip' when I want to vent on someone. It's time to move on. Live and let live.
I work with a team of moderators on another board. If a moderator feels that he or she can't make a fair decision on a situation, they will ask another moderator to follow through on it. We can always fall back on a group decision.
The TOS (terms of service) is referred to as the ground rules for topic discussions. When things get political, harassing or demeaning, then it is time to consider action. We need to act like Elmers and be inclusive and accepting of people different than ourselves.
I do see some very opinionated members here that should think for a moment before they click on the 'post' button. I would never say to a person's face what some here use as a response. It is possible to disagree in a friendly manner without trashing an individual and having others pile in.
The terms of service should be about the Golden Rule and respect of others. This means that some things said are off-limits and others need a moderator to referee.
Use the emoticons if you are being sarcastic or using off-the-wall humor. Some may take what you say literally or misunderstand your intended message.
Have a great day.
