You can use amazingly thin wire for an antenna, even at
100 watts. A practical limitation is around #32, because the
birds can't see it in time to avoid it. In general, an outside
antenna will probably generate lower exposure levels than
one in the attic (because it will be further from people.)
(I remember the story of someone who put up an invisible antenna
using #28 copperweld wire. A few months later the apartment
manager asked him about his antenna. It didn't bother him, but
it had upset one of the neighbors. No, they couldn't see the
antenna wire, but they could see the birds sitting on it!)
I've also had good results tucking an insulated wire under the
shingles on my roof (choosing a matching insulation color) or
stapling it in a loop around the house under the eaves and feeding
it with balanced line or twisted pair.
At HF frequencies at least, the radiation exposure to birds and
other wild life should not be enough to worry about.
Good luck!
- Dale WB6BYU