I've had two strikes.
The first was to a tree which supported the apex of my inverted V. The hit did not appear to be to the antenna per se, but to the tree itself. The coaxial feed to the antenna ran down the trunk of the tree where at the base of the tree, three 8' copper clad grounding rods, bonded together were connected to an Alpha-Delta gas discharge lightning arrestor, the feed line was trenched in a conduit to the foundation of the house where it was connected to a second Alpha-Delta arrestor connected to another cluster of grounding rods (about 5 or 6 as I recall) bonded to a ring of 000 gauge copper wire that encircled the house and was used to bond the cold water, landline, cable TV, power safety grounds, etc. Several other ground rods from various utility entry points were bonded to this ring of ground conductor at the foundation of the house.
I had a second strike at a different home a number of years later, same basic grounding configuration with a ring of grounding line encircling the house and multiple 8' ground rods. In the second case, the strike was to a tall tree about 30' from the house, about 15-20' from an OCF 160 M dipole suspended from other trees on the lot. The tree literally exploded from the strike with splintered wood blown out over at least a 50' radius surrounding the tree. This antenna, still in use, is fed with ladder line through a 4:1 balun at the entry point to the house at a 3rd floor window. At the entry point, an Alpha-Delta arrestor is in in the coaxial line entering the house, grounded through 000 gauge copper cable to a similar ring of 000 copper encircling the house and bonding all other grounds. In the case of the second strike, no direct damage was apparent to the antenna of feed.
When not in use, the incoming feed is grounded at an Alpha-Delta antenna switch, of note, also has a gas discharge tube as part of its design.
All my gear is connected to the AC line through good quality commercial grade surge protectors.
Long story short, I had only one radio casualty as a result of these two events. My Flex 1500 was blown, not repairable at the second strike. My other gear, multiple older tube type and more recent vintage radios including an ICOM 775 were not affected.
In both cases the network routers in my house, a digital TV, cable modem, and a couple desktop computers were destroyed. Several audio op amps were blown in the a stereo FM tuner which was protected with commercial lightning arrestor on the antenna feed, albeit probably not as robust as the heftier Alpha-Delta units on the Ham installation.
The loss was clearly not the result of any direct strike or power line surge but from EMP effects of the very nearby hit and resulting huge E-field pulse produced by the lightning inducing current in poorly shielded consumer electronics. I don't know of any way to prevent this short of building a Faraday cage enclosing the home.
The ARRL book on grounding and lightning protection is quite good and I highly recommend it. Also, I've been very pleased with the Alpha-Delta hardware but I'm sure other good quality units would work similarly. I just use what I know works.