Hi Adam,
Here's a little bit more info. The "blended" PTT line (comprised of the front panel PTT switch and mic jack PTT line in parallel) exits the AF-VR Unit in (3) places:
1. Via (2) wires coming off the AF-VR Unit PCB (labeled as P4 in the service manual) which are terminated in a white plug, probably 2 pins, that go to another unit in the IC-751A. I haven't traced it out, but my guess would be the MAIN Unit.
2. Via the 10-pin white plug on the AF-VR Unit labeled in the service manual as P6/J9.
3. Via the 3-pin white plug on the AF-VR Unit labeled in the service manual as P2/J11.
The AF-VR Unit is in a difficult location to access behind the front diecast panel, some disassembly may be required. Good luck, I'm pretty sure the trouble you're having is in this area.
73 es HNY, Frank W3PX