You really need to assess the level of coupling between the two radios on all bands and antenna combinations. Set one to its lowest power output (probably 5 to 10 watts) and transmit while checking the signal level on the other in receive mode, tuned to the same frequency. It's hard to predict exactly how much signal it will take to do damage, but you should be safe up to S9+60dB - probably more. The receiver S meter may not read that high - assume that it's all linear, check the received signal level with 10W out, then do the sums to work out roughly what it would be with 100W out. If it's looking like it could be exceeding S9+60, then do the sums more carefully!
Some receivers can be damaged by as little as 0dBm coming down the cable. S9 is generally defined to be -73dBm - hence S9+70 is getting close to the point where you should begin to worry...
Martin (G8FXC)