1) HL-2200 is identical to SB-221 except that it has a prettier cabinet, and an added standby switch.
2) If the amp is un-modified, has good tubes and in good shape, you paid an OK price. Actually it was a good price. The ugly green of the SB-220/221 doesn't fit with any shack, and the HL-2200 is far easier on the eyes.
3) Do NOT build an RF sensing circuit for this amp!!! If you do, you'll hot switch and toast the T/R relay. The switching timing of an amplifier at this power level is important. If the sequence of events is "detect RF from exciter, then activate T/R relay", you guarantee to hot-switch that relay - you switch the relay while RF is applied. The sequence should be "Detect amp keying signal from rig, and get the T/R relay switched before the rig actually delivers RF to the amp". There are many circuits that will interface between your solid state rig and the 120V or so that the amp keying uses.
4) Don't go overboard on the Harbach mods. Many of them are little more than window dressing. Parasitic suppressor "upgrades" can just as easily send the amp into oscillation as prevent it. The portion of AG6K's message about modifying the input circuits with more resistance is what tames parasitics, if they even exist.
5) Don't replace HV filter caps unless the HV is sagging badly. Just because they're lower in capacitance than when new doesn't mean the amp hums - unless you run it at saturation, which I hope you don't do.
6) If Harbach offers a kit to protect against arcs, that's good. Tubes DO arc, in an unpredictable manner, no matter what you do. Some tube may go 20 years without one, and other tubes do it every few months. With an arc protection device (a resistor in series with HV supply to limit arc current), you won't blow the power supply or tube grid when the arc happens.
7) Why don't you want to connect the ALC? It's just one cable. Do it. If something goes amiss with the HV supply or your antenna suddenly goes open circuit, the ALC will cut your exciter back to 100 MILLIWATTS if that's what it takes to protect the grids. Also, if you are an SSB operator, you can't measure your power accurately enough to know if you're delivering 50W or 100W to the amp - even peak reading meters, ham grade, aren't very good.

Use the amp for a while before you add 10 meters. I never find a need for amps on 10 - if the band's open, it's open for QRP.
9) The only two mods to bring the amp to "today's standards" are the arc protect and low voltage keying, called "soft key" by Harbach.
Good luck and enjoy.
AM