I don't know about software, but the control interface is a single TTL level input. A three conductor header designed to mate with square pins on 0.1" centers will mate with it, but I just use a couple of wirewrap jumper type connectors.
I would imagine a diode and some resistors would work for the appropriate level conversion from a standard RS232.
It's data into the FT757 only, the third pin on that connector is the AGC voltage out.
As I recall, it's 4 or 5 characters at 4800 bps for all the commands.