Scotty:
I've been married for 51 years. It seems that most wives protest or show displeasure with ham antennas. Actually, it has been my observation living amoungst many married people, that women simply can't stand to see a guy having fun!
With that being said, may I suggest three things. !-Wait her out....stand firm or as the Queen was once quoted when she told George Bush during a particularly difficult time in his presidency, "Don't get all wobbly!" LOL.
2 -You could put up two more 'antennas' complete with coax......and when she starts complaining about them, tell her, "OK darling (or anything else that she might find believable) I'll take these two down but will leave the one up." You will be compromising which should satisfy her.
3 - Try to get her involved with your hobby. She might start to share your enthusiasam. This doesn't always work but you could give it a try.
Believe me, she will eventually get over it!
Rotsa Ruck
Al - K8AXW